Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Forbearance is my word of the day

We're now into 11 days of puppy ownership, and we're hanging in there.  Overall, Oscar is an amazing puppy, and anyone who has met him is impressed at how sweet and calm he is.  He lets us sleep all night  (goes potty on a training pad), is getting better about letting us enjoy our own meals while he watches, is really sweet with the kids as long as he's not in a "chewy" mood, and does great with the "Sit" command. 

Then yesterday he turned the tables on me and morphed into this jumping, chewing fiend on two unsuccessful tries for a walk.  I picked him up and carried him home the rest of the way both times because he would not listen to anything I said.  This was especially frustrating because we'd gone on numerous, calm walks before that, with very little problems.  It was rainy and wet and just a grumpy day, and I was pretty harsh with him and mad.

I woke up this morning and decided to practice forbearance.  Look it up, it's a good word.  Yes, he's still jumped up on me a few times today, but we've moved past it.  I think he must be able to sense a difference because we just got back from the longest walk yet and he was WONDERFUL, evenly paced, happy and attentive, and hardly sniffed a leaf.  He did get skittish and try to hide underneath me when the loud UPS truck started up on the curb, but that was just cute.

Enjoy some random pics of Oscar, some Christmas reindeer outtakes, and video of Rhiannon's band concerts and piano recital last week.

Merry Christmas!



Burrito puppy after his first bath





Stretched out in his crate for a nap

Thanks, Grandma Deb--the gingerbread houses were fun! 
(I think Wade ate his while he was making it--check out that cheek!)



Rhiannon and two boys covered the drums on this song--they did a good job!




We love hearing her play!

Sunday, November 27, 2011

The CA Cushings conquer Disneyland

Here are some pretty cool pictures from our first day of vacation...enjoy!


Getting ready for the Indiana Jones ride, 1st Visit Pins, and Star Tours awesomeness

Nemo Ride, Princess Aurora, Buzz Lightyear Astro Blasters

Mad Tea Party ride--Jason was having a pretty good time spinning us on that one!

Mr Toad's Ride, Carousel, a glimpse of It's a Small World, and Toby the Tortoise!

Fun with Traci and Max at Mickey Mouse's house, plus Woody in the Christmas Parade

Wade enters the Jedi Training academy

How's that for a view?  Everything looked amazing lit up at night!

Making memories together!

This week was one of those memories-to-last-a-lifetime weeks.  We packed so much in 4 days down in Anaheim and had a blast.  Sunday night we drove down in lots of rainy, foggy weather, and then we woke up early on Monday and got to Disneyland when it opened.  I'm not joking when I say it felt like everyone had the same idea we had to go there at Thanksgiving--it was packed and got exponentially more crowded as the day went on.  Because of that, we felt pretty good about all the rides and experiences we got in.  Many thanks to Derrick, Traci, Max, and Maggie for hanging out with us and showing us the ropes, too!

I'll say right off the bat that we didn't go on Space Mountain or It's a Small World and just caught a glimpse of the Christmas parade.  The kids weren't feeling the roller coaster, and I was trying to avoid getting that song stuck in my head (plus long lines).  But here are all the things we did get to do:

Indiana Jones--first ride of the day, we walked right on and loved it
Jungle Cruise--did this at night, short wait, HILARIOUS commentary on this cheesy boat ride
Haunted Mansion--very long line, we did this at night and it was pretty cool
Big Thunder Mountain Railroad--FUN!!!  I screamed my head off on this coaster
Hungry Bear restaurant--the sweet potato fries were fantastic
Roger Rabbit ride
Mickey's House--long wait wasn't too bad as we walked through his house and saw fun things
Autopia
Buzz Lightyear Astro Blasters--we got to do this with Traci and Max--fun!
Finding Nemo Sub Voyage
Star Tours--EXCELLENT and funny!
Jedi Training Academy--Wade got picked to be a Jedi!
Astro Orbiter
Mad Tea Party teapots
Mr. Toad's Wild Ride--for old times sake for Jason
King Arthur carousel
Matterhorn Bobsleds--fun; Rhiannon really wanted to do this one--we loved it!
Fireworks at night!!!

We did use the FastPass system several times--it was easy and saved us a lot of time at "The Happiest Place on Earth!"

Saturday, November 26, 2011

A hint of blog posts to come...

The CA Cushings finally meet Mickey




We really enjoyed our time with the Anaheim Sheens, too. 
Traci's Thanksgiving Extravaganza was AMAZING!


Today we dropped in on Oscar to see how he was doing.  He's SO much bigger and getting cute and scraggly!  His dad Zachary is in the top right, and his mom Rosie was chillin'.  Oscar perked up when we walked in the door and started whimpering when we left--we are just in love with the little guy!  (We should be able to bring him home in a couple weeks, too.)


This week has been epic.
More details coming soon!
Merry Christmas!

Friday, November 18, 2011

November is flying by!



Here's what's been going on at our house!

From Wade:  "We've been preparing for a dog.  Today I got some Super Star awards from an assembly at school--8th place in Accelerated Reader top 10, and 2nd place in Accelerated Math.  Last night was busy--I went to flag football practice and then to Cub Scouts where we learned about making cartoons.  My good friends right now are Nick and Elijah R., and at lunch recess I like to hang out at the library and read."  (Mom's addition--I'm really proud of Wade for being a good sport and a good example at both football and Cub Scouts.  When we started Cub Scouts a few weeks ago, we were both a little worried because many of the other boys in his group were CRAZY.  We've hung in there, though, and the boys have settled down and are pretty fun to be with on Thursday nights.)

From Rhiannon:  "My life is awesome and boring.  I'm excited about getting a dog, and I miss my friends from school already (we get a week off for Thanksgiving).  I play the piano all the time and really like the Pirates of the Caribbean songs.  I bought some good aviator shades at Wal-Mart.  In English I carved a sea turtle out of soap to go along with this book we read called The Cay.  I'm in love with paranormal books and scary books like The Secret Hour by Scott Westerfield."  (Mom's addition--Rhiannon plays the piano ALL. THE.  TIME.  She loves to get free songs (or at least the first pages of songs) on musicnotes.com.  She's doing great with that!)

Jason was in Dayton, OH this week and got back last night.  He's had to travel more this fall but plans on taking some use-or-lose days for vacation during Thanksgiving and Christmas, and it's going to be great having him home!  Jason took us on a rock-and-roll drive in the truck on Veteran's Day to the "Burro" Schmidt Tunnel with friends--it was awesome!

I subbed three times this week and have to say they were all pretty good jobs.  I've learned to pray specifically for "a happy sub job" instead of "patience."  Things go a lot better for me when I do that!   Our ward did our Primary presentation last Sunday and it went really well--I knew we'd done a good thing when I was talking to my friend the next day about it, and she got teary-eyed expressing how many times the Spirit was felt during the program and how touched she and her husband were by it.

Next week we are going here:

 

and here:

and we get to spend Thanksgiving with these guys!




It's going to be an epic week of Thanksgiving!  And then 2 weeks after that?  We are bringing home

Oscar, the 8-wk-old labradoodle puppy!



He'll be a LOT bigger when we bring him home even though he's the "runt" of the litter--this is an old pic.  Yes, we think we're ready for potty training and sleepless nights and chewing, and we CAN'T WAIT!

Monday, November 7, 2011

It really doesn't get too much better than this!



On Saturday, November 5th, 2011,  Wade Cushing got baptized and confirmed!  We are so proud of him for making the decision to become an official member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  It was a wonderful day, made even better with lots of family and friends coming out for it!  I'll write more about it later--my heart is too full!

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Halloween 2011


Happy Halloween from the Pirate and Indiana Jones! 
The kids are really happy with their costumes this year. :)

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I've been enlightened!

Practices for the Primary presentation are not my favorite activities. In our ward, we're basically asking the kids to sit still and be quiet for 3 hours straight, 2 Sundays in a row, in their church clothes, no less. On top of that, we asked our kids to come prepared to focus and do their very best the morning after...


our ward trunk-or-treat.  If I didn't know any better, and know what end results will come from practicing, I'd think I was specializing in the cruel and unusual torture of children!  15 minutes before the end of church I wanted to escape just as much as the kids did!

There was some good to come out of the torture today, though, and that's why I wanted to blog about it.  This will be my 3rd program in 2 years, and it's the first time the kids have really, really known the songs and sung their hearts out.  Oh, and without the usual visual aids and posters, too.  It was amazing--I had to give a major shout-out to our wonderful music people and the parents who've been working with their kids on the songs.  It showed, in a big way.

I also wanted to give a shout-out to Rhiannon.  It's her last program.  She's pretty much fed up with Primary but still tries hard to have a good attitude about it.  On the way home after church Rhiannon had several ideas for how to make the presentation run better and smoother--I felt like I was having a discussion with a Laurel class president and not an 11-year-old!  I am REALLY going to miss having her in Primary with me when she turns 12 in May.  (sniff, sniff!)

My favorite part of the practice was a special musical number with all the scraggly, wiggly boys in the Senior Primary group, Wade included.  It's a good size group of boys, considering how small our Senior Primary is.  All of the kids had been singing great and singing well, but then that small group got up and belted out "I Hope They Call Me On A Mission," and it was electric.  My counselor sitting closest to the boys started crying, and I could feel goosebumps up and down my arms. 

It was powerful and sweet and for that moment, the torture ended and the only place I wanted to be was with those kids.

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Rhiannon's first band concert!

Rhiannon's band class put on their first concert on the 14th.  Jason and I got to attend and really enjoyed it.  It was short, sweet, and fun!  I was surprised by how much the kids could do after just 6 weeks, too!

Rhiannon really enjoys Mr. Lacher and says he's her favorite teacher!  Rhiannon is in the back, playing the xylophone with another kid named Spencer.



Enjoy the video! :)

May the Force be with our 8-year-old!

WADE IS EIGHT!

We love this kid so much and had a blast celebrating his 8th birthday on October 21st!




Wade loves all birthdays, especially his own.  He was doing a birthday countdown for several months!  On the morning of his birthday, he woke up to balloons on his floor.  His favorite was the one that said, "On 10/21/03, a SUPER HERO was born!"

His big gift this year was a bigger bike, which we got at the school's garage sale and fixed up at a bike shop here in town.  We've been having "practice sessions" most mornings after we drop off Rhiannon, and he's doing great learning how to ride that bike!  His balance has improved and before long, he won't need Mom to help him with the kick-off.  He has lots to learn, but he gets an A+++ for effort and enthusiasm! :) 

At school he handed out Halloween stamps and vampire teeth to his classmates, and Mom stopped by at lunch to say hi and give birthday hugs.  Then as soon as he got home from school, we got ready for his big party with friends.  He settled on the Star Wars Lego theme for his party, and it was fun and easy to do.  Mom's favorite thing was the decorating, and I think Wade enjoyed the Jedi circuit training, water balloon battle, and of course, opening fun presents!  His guests were great--a good mix of friends from church and school.  After all the kids left, Howard and Sandi came to help us continue the celebration with pizza and peace and quiet. :) 

It was the perfect birthday!  We love Wade so much and are so proud of him.  He can't wait to get baptized next week, too!  WE LOVE YOU, WADE!


Columbus Day weekend in Utah!

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We drove up to Utah over Columbus Day weekend in the truck (since I'd damaged the van in a fender bender and had to wait to repair it) and we had a good time! Jason got an XM radio subscription which was great for listening to baseball games and way random music channels, everything from Rhiannon's favorite top 20 tunes to Jamaiican Me Crazy stuff. :)

We stayed the night in Hurricane and then got up on Saturday and drove to Jordan and Amelia's to spend a few hours with them. We got to meet baby Reta for the first time (sweetheart!!!) and really enjoyed some chill time there. The cousins played Legos and got out the dress-up box, and Jason and I got caught up with Jordan and Amelia--good times.

That night we had de-lish Pie pizza with the Cushing and Cropper clans.  It was wonderful to meet baby Charlie for the first time and shocking to see how much Lilly had changed!  Heather and Jaymie treated Rhiannon and me to a Savers trip that night and we found some great clothes there.  Thanks for being our very helpful shopping assistants! :)

On Sunday we celebrated all things Charlie, enjoyed his baby blessing, and had a fantastic time catching up with everyone over dinner and dessert.  I can't forget Grandma Deb's Halloween cookie decorating extravaganza--she sure knows how to throw a party! :)  Jason has some blackmail picture somewhere of me with Aunt Rochelle's bird, too--let's just say that the kids did a much better job holding the birds than I did--McKaleigh was one heck of a Bird Whisperer, too! :)

Grandma Deb treated Wade to some early birthday shopping on Monday morning, and later we joined Heather and the kids at Gardener Village.  The Halloween and witches theme there, along with the scavenger hunt, were SO FUN!  Thanks for including us on that cool tradition!

Tuesday we got up early and headed back home.  The best way I can describe this trip is that feeling you get when you hold your breath for a long time and finally get to exhale--our short little getaway was an amazing stress reliever.  I'm so glad we went and can't wait til we get up to Utah again!

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Exclamation points!

Don't worry, I haven't forgotten about the blog!  It's been a great month!  The van got fixed!  We went to Utah!  Wade turned 8 and had an amazing birthday!  Rhiannon had her first band concert!  Jason closed the pool!  Jason and I made a trip to the LA Temple!  I'm working on the Primary presentation and have had some good sub jobs!  We've got Halloween costumes picked out!  etc, etc, etc.
The truth is that we've just been busy, busy, busy, and a tiny bit preoccupied with our latest project--The Cushings are ready to get a dog!!!

We've always said we'd like to get a dog "someday."  We wanted to hold off because of Wade's allergies.  We really liked other people's dogs, but weren't feeling any tug to get our own and deal with that huge responsibility.  We fell in love with Cocoa and Bear and Beulah. We got our first pet Toby the Tortoise and got a little taste of what it's like to care for a creature daily.

Well, on our drive down to the temple on Saturday, Jason wanted to talk about a very random comment I'd made earlier in the week:  "If I could get a dog, I'd get a bullmastiff."  I was cooking dinner and remembered this amazing gentle bear of a bullmastiff I'd met at Rhiannon's friend's house, and it just kind of popped out of my  mouth. (I do that a lot.)  Jason wondered what exactly was keeping us from getting a dog, and we couldn't think of too many reasons!   We felt so great about it and couldn't wait to talk it over with the kids.

Since Sunday we've gotten 30+ comments on Facebook on our dog inquiry ("looking for a dog that doesn't shed, doesn't bark, and isn't hyper").  We've visited an 8-mo-old English mastiff named Axle, Shelby the Great Pyrenees, Annabelle the Bassett, and Charlie the Cavapoo (poodle and Cavalier King Charles Spaniel mix).  Every extra minute we're online looking at pictures of dogs or checking out Petfinder.com.  Today I checked out a stack of books from the library and I'm listening to a podcast about dogs while I'm typing this.  When Wade gets home in an hour, we're going to go make another visit to the animal shelter.  Maybe tonight we'll watch the Dog 101 shows that we've DVRed.

I guess what I'm trying to communicate is that we are well aware of 2 things: 

1.  We have a LOT to learn and prepare for!
2.  We are all REALLY excited about finding the perfect dog for our family Christmas present!

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Students of the Month!


Wade was chosen by his teacher to be September's Student of the Month, and Rhiannon's math teacher chose her for October's (out of 140 students). We love these kids and are so proud of their hard work at school!
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Sadness



Tuesday was a rough day.  We left the house at our regular 6:40am time, but after we picked up our friend JenAi, Rhiannon really wanted to go back to the house and grab her jacket.  She was right--it was cold that day.  Unfortunately the minute it took us to go back to the house cost us an added 10-15 minutes waiting in line at the base gate, and it was very stressful.  We all worried about getting to school on time, and then I added on the additional pressure by telling Rhiannon she HAD to go to the office first to turn in a field trip paper that she kept forgetting about.  We were a little annoyed with each other.  I zoomed to the school and decided to drop the girls off across from the office, something I never do.

The girls got out and walked inside, and then I started backing up to get out of the weird angle I'd parked in.  I heard this strange sound and looked to the front and sides to see where it might be coming from.  Weird, I thought.  I kept backing up and then heard this "crunch" noise.  I finally looked in the rear view mirror and realized that the noise I'd heard was someone honking at me trying to warn me that I was going to hit them, and I had in fact damaged both their vehicle and ours.  

No one was hurt.  For this I am very, very, very thankful.

I'll fast forward through all the gory details and say that I've learned a lot about embarrassment, insurance, adrenaline, adjusters, estimates, and humility--the last couple days have felt like an eternity.  I caused a fender bender and I hope it NEVER happens ever again.  Jason's been so patient with me, my friends Heidi and Michelle have been life savers, and the insurance people have been very quick to help.  The day after the accident I was cleared by the adjuster to set up an appointment with the repair shop of our choice here in town and they were already sending a check to that business.  My prayer is that the next few steps will be just as easy.

Because of my accident, we won't be able to drive the van up to UT.  We're going to take the truck instead.  Should be an interesting trip!  I'm sure grateful for that 3rd vehicle, too!

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Welcome, October!


The kids helped me decorate the house after General Conference. It's looking very festive around here!
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Sunday, October 2, 2011

Good traditions

Last night we hosted another ice cream extravaganza after the General Conference priesthood meeting.  Jason invited the young men leaders and the young men and their dads from our ward.  It was the best turn out so far--I'd say around 25 or 30 showed up. 

We had just the right amount of ice cream--2.5 gallons.  And the toppings were a hit, too--rainbow sprinkles, chocolate sprinkles, strawberry syrup, chocolate syrup, caramel syrup, marshmallows, M&M's, toffee bits, coconut, gummy bears, and canned whipping cream!  Towards the end some boys showed up with extra offerings, too--Whoppers and Nerds candy.  I completely forgot to put out some crushed Oreos--maybe next year!

Rhiannon, Wade, and I were definitely underdressed in our shorts and t-shirts, surrounded by white shirts and ties.   It was a fun night, and a great tradition!

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Conference police

I sat down to put some thoughts down on the blog about General Conference.  I was sitting next to Wade on the couch.  He said, "Um, what did that talk say about being on the computer too much?"  (Guess he was listening intently to Elder Ardern's talk...)  Smiling, I said I was putting my time to good use by writing about conference and added that the Nintendo DS game he was engrossed in at that moment could probably be called a time waster, too.  He grinned and got the message that a Conference Policeman needs to pay attention to his own choices and not just those of his family in the room with him! 

Wade cracked me up during our 4 hours of Conference talks today, raising eyebrows at each of us for both good reasons (Primary kids singing "Families Can Be Together Forever") and bad (that killer talk on good use of time).   It is a WONDERFUL experience watching your kids grasp the important messages they hear during General Conference!  Rhiannon and I would usually jinx each other after talks, too, saying, "That was a good one!" at the same time. 

All 4 of us hanging out in the same room, keeping our fingers busy with different activities,  but all listening carefully, too.  Oh, and eating almost-expired "treats" from the emergency kits, too.  I love Conference weekends!

Here's my quick summary of Saturday's messages:

Elder Scott--Scriptures can become our friends.  Fill your mental "filing cabinet" with memorized scriptures.  Grow to love all the scriptures.  Consistently read the Book of Mormon--it is true.

Sister Thompson--Holy Ghost and personal revelation.  We need to desire to know, ask in faith, and keep the commandments, then answers will come in God's way and in His own time.  Our testimonies get us through hard times--they need to be strengthened so that they'll sustain us.

Elder Clayton--Church growth.  Growth of the Church prophesied in the scriptures.  It is happening!  We need to share the important message of the knowledge of a Savior.

President Monson--we loved his enthusiastic "Hello!" at the beginning.  Announced temples in Columbia, the Congo, Durban in South Africa, Star Valley in Wyoming, Paris, and the Provo Tabernacle being rebuilt as a temple.  Loved all the collective gasps from the audience at these announcements!  Also mentioned a new fund set up for members living in remote areas to have money for a 1-time trip to temple.

Elder Alonso--Service and rescuing those who are lost.  LOVED this repeated phrase:  "do the right thing at the right time without delay."

President Packer--great talk directed to the youth.  How to survive in enemy territory and a world in commotion?  Listen to and follow the Spirit.  Too many good things in this talk--we will for sure want to review this with the kids.

President Uchtdorf--Worth of souls.  The paradox of man--man is nothing, but man is everything to God.  Always retain the greatness of God and the worth of souls.  Loved his stories about being in west Texas, and the humble couple who went about doing good.

Elder Bednar--I've heard many talks on family history work, but this talk was especially good.  You don't have to be old to do family history work!  He spent a lot of time explaining how the youth should get involved and not be overly trained, but basically introduced to family work and then they'll catch the excitement all on their own.  Cool story about some young men who were asked to teach the family history course in their ward. Very timely.  All of us enjoyed this talk.

Elder Andersen--Importance of families and having children.  Have faith--multiply and replenish the earth--don't follow what the world says and wait til you have "enough money."  How many or when to have children is a personal decision between God, husband, and wife.  Don't be judgmental of others, too, in this vital, sensitive topic.

Elder Aldern--Make good use of your time.  I took a LOT of notes on this one.  Basic message to me was don't let technology take over your life!  Seek after the things of God and make time for Him and your family.  Make sure that all your busy-ness is productive and not just using up time.

Elder Carl Cook--LOVED this one and loved his story about being in the elevator with Pres Monson--"It's better to look up!"  Prophets lead us to God.  Look up, step up, and you will cheer up!

Elder LeGrand Curtis Jr.--wonderful talk about the Savior's Atonement and several stories of redemption.  Reach out to others--through Christ, people can change their lives.

Elder Christofferson--Jason felt this was one of the better talks he'd ever heard on repentance.  I loved how he talked about repentance being a joyful experience--"Look, I'm smiling!"  He shared 5 keys--repentance is a message of love, striving to change takes effort, commit to be obedient, be serious about repentance (don't do a check-off list), and feel the joy of forgiveness.

Elder Perry--"Be thou an example."  With all the attention the Church has been getting in the media, he reminded us of how important it is to be a good example, speak up, do good works, walk in faith, and share the gospel message.


What's been your favorite part so far?

Saturday, September 24, 2011

President Uchtdorf scores again!



Wonderful RS broadcast tonight.  For highlights, go to lds.org

"I shook his hand!"

On the 17th and 18th of September we went to stake conference and were very blessed to have special visitors there--the Apostle Elder Quentin L. Cook and Elder Yamashita of the Quorum of the Seventy.  There wasn't any apparent reason for their visit--there weren't any presidency changes or ward boundary alterations.  We were all so excited to have them there!  You can click on their pictures below to read more about them.

     

Jason got to hear from them three times.  At the priesthood session he thought it was interesting that Elder Cook spent a portion of the meeting just answering questions from people!

That night Jason and I picked up our friend Sandi Collins for the adult session.  It was amazing.  The meeting was so quiet!  It wasn't just that all the kids were missing either--it was like we were all concentrating so hard because we didn't want to miss a word that was said.

Here were some favorite parts from that meeting:

Los Angeles Temple president--Pres Brimhall said that our children will do what they see us do.  He told this amazing story about his granddaughter Kate.  When she was 3 years old, she suddenly became comatose.  After several minutes at the emergency room, Kate came out of the coma and the first words out of her mouth were:  "Yes on 8!"  She had seen her parents standing on corners, trying to get the word out about Proposition 8 as they had things thrown at them.  She told the doctor, "Yes on 8 means marriage."  The doctor, with tears in his eyes, agreed with her.

Member of our stake Becky Hazel gave this amazing talk on forgiveness.  The quote she gave--"A happy marriage is a union of two good forgivers"--rang in my head all weekend.

Elder Yamashita talked about temple work and missionary work.  When he goes to the temple, he tries to imagine his family with him, and their future families, as he sits in the celestial room.

Elder Cook said he'd decided to talk about sacrifice.  He first talked about the year 1837, when the Saints (and the world for that matter) were going through very hard economic times, much like today.  Despite financial difficulties, missionary work was increased.  He quoted verses in D&C 111 and 112.  Elder Cook understood that we were far away from the LA temple, but he said that sacrifice brings unity, and we should go as often as we could.  Then he treated us to the story of how he became an Apostle.  He remembered going into President Hinckley's office and trying to make excuses for why he shouldn't be an Apostle, but Pres Hinckley held up his hand and stopped him, asking "Do you feel comfortable in bearing testimony of the divinity of Christ?"  Elder Cook said he did, and accepted the call.  He admitted he felt like a little man for such a big job, and went home and told his wife, "We've got a big problem!"  I loved his sense of humor and his humility.

At the end of his talk, he left us with an Apostolic blessing.  I am so glad we went to that meeting, because he only hinted at the blessing the following day in the general session.  He blessed us to have the inspiration to raise our children in enemy territory, to have a desire to be generous with our fast offerings and help those in need, and to increase our faith in the Savior and focus on Him.  It was so simple, and yet so powerful.  The room was absolutely silent as we soaked those words in!

We lingered at the end, and all three of us got to shake Elder Cook's hand.  And then when we were walking to the van, we saw our stake president and a couple others near our van.  They were saying goodbye to Elder Cook and Elder Yamashita as they drove away in their little rental car.  Again and again I felt the significance of the special spirit of these men and their humility.  There weren't any bodyguards or limousines--just a little black 4-door two cars down from us!

Sunday's meeting was a bit of a blur for me.  We picked up Howard and Sandi at 9:15, 45 minutes before the meeting started, hoping to get a seat near the front.  We felt kind of silly when we got there and were told that the chapel had filled up at 7:30am.  So we shuffled to halfway back in the gym!  We're very grateful to Sandi, who encouraged Wade to go shake Elder Cook's hand as he was making his way up to the podium.  Wade looked like this little puppy dog, very persistent in working his way through the crowd to get to him!  He was so excited--that night he held out his hand to me and said, "This hand shook the hand of an  Apostle!"  Hopefully it will be a moment he'll never forget.

Our stake president talked about helping prospective elders (a big push in our stake).  Pres Bull talked about having gospel-centered goals and priorities and not being fence sitters.  Elder Yamashita spoke directly to the children, telling them this story about a lion cub raised among sheep.  He asked the children, "Are you the child of a lion, or the child of sheep?"  And then Elder Cook spoke and mainly talked about how prophets prepare us for the future.  He remembered how Pres Hinckley had said that "stormy weather" was ahead financially, way back in Nov 1998.  How Pres Grant talked about the Word of Wisdom, and how President McKay focused on families and said that divorce would be a terrible thing for children.  Elder Cook encouraged us to pay attention to President Monson--his focus has always been on rescuing and reaching out to the one, and on family religious observance in the home.  He is preparing us for things to come.

This is probably one of the longest posts I've ever done, but I wanted to make a record of that special weekend.  Our testimonies were strengthened and we felt the Spirit.  What a perfect way to get ready for General Conference next weekend!

Lazy Saturday morning

Here's what everyone's been up to this morning:

Jason is golfing with friends at the base golf course  (it's been a long time!)



Wade is downstairs eating pretzels and watching the show "Family Game Night" on the Hub channel.





Rhiannon is downstairs on the computer, checking eBay for cute winter coats.  Here are some examples (I'm going to call the one with ears an Ewok coat)




I am upstairs, letting everyone do whatever they want while I get a TON of Primary stuff done.  I've created the Primary program outline and seating chart, sent emails, and made plans.  It feels great to get those things done on my



list, especially since I've been putting it off and trying to avoid it!

Now we'll scrounge for some lunch, take showers, and see what else comes our way today!

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Poems

Today was a very happy day for Wade--his mom subbed in his class the whole day!  He was a great student, super helpful and hard-working.  One of the activities for the day was creating poems about a friend, trying to use rhyming words.  Here was Wade's:

A Good Friend

I want to play with my friend each day
And even on Saturday.
And even if we get in fights,
I still want to play at his house all day and night.

by Wade Cushing


Here was another favorite:


Mrs. Cushing is nice
Just like Jesus Christ.

by Elijah

This cute, bright little Hispanic boy wrote that and was so excited to show it to me.  A student next to him asked me, "Didn't he use a bad word in his poem?"  I said it was okay, he wasn't swearing, just using a name.  I seriously wanted to hug the kids and take them home with me, it was too cute.

Of course the kid who threw pencils around the room and stole things from people's desks wasn't cute.  (I had to call the office and have someone come get him--he wouldn't do ANYTHING I asked him to do.) But the other kids in the class helped make it a pretty darn good day

Friday, September 9, 2011

California relatives!

Labor Day weekend FUN!!!
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Derrick, Traci, Max, and Maggie braved fires and horrendous traffic last Friday on their way up to Ridgecrest.  We were so happy they arrived safe and sound!!!  Recently they moved to Anaheim, California for Derrick's training with JCPenney.  It's REALLY cool to have relatives in the same state, however temporary! :)

Top 12 Favorite DTMM moments, in no particular order:

1.  Swimming
2.  24/7 watch on Maggie, who sure liked our stairs! :)
3.  Watching Wade and Max play light sabres outside
4.  Apples to Apples
5.  Pizza Hut night
6.  Not one, but two Rook games--it had been a very long time since we'd played, and it was fun!
7.  Picking up Max from Sunbeams and hearing him say bye to his new fans:  "Bye, little girls!"
8.  Derrick and Traci's cool garage sale finds
9.  Time at the park
10.  Traci earning Best Aunt award after taking Wade and Rhiannon to WalMart--she let them look all over the store and was SUPER patient with them!
11.  Ward breakfast on Labor Day
12.  More fun Labor Day afternoon, swimming and barbecuing with D, T, M, and M, Sandi, and McLain and Melissa and their kids

I'm sure there were more, but those were some of MY favorites! :)  We love our favorite California relatives and had a great time making memories with them!

Friday, August 26, 2011

A great week

We've been blessed with a very smooth first week of school.  I'm so proud of the kids for getting up and going each morning so that we could be out the door by 6:40am every day!  School is school for Wade--he likes his teacher and says everything is good.  I think he might be a tiny bit bored (straight 100s on everything he brings home), but things will definitely pick up now that his teacher has had a week to build routines.  Rhiannon is a little more enthusiastic--every afternoon she walks through the front door and looks like she's floating on clouds, you can tell she is so happy to be in middle school!

I feel like I'm floating on clouds, too--I was able to take off the walking boot on Tuesday after I got a clean bill of health from my doctor.  He said to wear stiff shoes and stear clear of heavy activity for another 6 weeks, but my foot has healed nicely.  I asked the doc about this small bump on my foot, and he said that was new bone that had formed to protect the injured area.  As long as I don't feel discomfort, he said it should be fine.  So far it's been okay.  I'm re-learning how to walk without the boot--the first day was pretty rough, but I forced myself to use the left foot more as I did some volunteer work at Wade's school during the week and did some light aerobics with ladies at the church this morning!  (Well, they did aerobics and I did my own version!)

Tonight we're having some neighbors over for grilling/swimming, and then tomorrow night we'll host another grill/swim with our game night group.  We're looking forward to it!

Monday, August 22, 2011

And so it begins...

Rhiannon starts 6th grade; Wade starts 2nd!  They're ready for a great year!

We turned a page in the CA Cushing history book today.  Our kids will never attend the same school at the same time ever again.  It's a little bittersweet to me that Rhiannon and Wade won't get to experience middle school or high school with each other.  I loved going to high school with Brant and Logan--Logan even shared an art class with me during my senior year!   Thankfully Rhiannon will be a good trailblazer for her brother!

Today also marked the start of a MUCH EARLIER daily routine for us.  Instead of taking our sweet time in the morning, the day went like this:

5:53am--Rhiannon hits the showers
6:10am--Jason is out the door and off to work
6:15am--Wade hits the showers
6:30am--Breakfast
6:40am--First day of school photo shoot
6:45am--Out the door to take Rhiannon to school (there was a very long line at the base gate)
7:06am--Bye, Rhiannon!  Have a great day!  (first time I've NOT walked her to her classroom!)
7:15-8:15am--shower for Mom, Mom and Wade chill, clean up the house, take more pictures
8:15am--Leave to take Wade to school
8:40am--Gates open and we get to go to Wade's class and say hi to Mrs. Bishop
8:50am--Mom gets a hug and knuckle bump from Wade and says goodbye!

It's weird being awake for nearly 5 hours already!  I'm going to take it easy and then go pick up Rhiannon who gets out of school 45 minutes before Wade does.  If it's not ridiculously hot outside, I'll drive straight to Wade's school and we'll just hang out there until he gets out.  Rhiannon and I can chat and she can maybe do some homework.  We'll see.

Tomorrow I'll start a car pool with my friend Heidi--we both have kids at the same schools.  I'm going to take the morning shift for a few weeks, and she's going to pick kids up the afternoon.  We'll see how it works out!

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