Saturday, January 12, 2019

Verity turned 43!




I had a spectacular birthday, and I'm so grateful for that.  Jason, Rhiannon, and Wade, for one reason or another, had a tough day that day and still tried so hard to make it a happy one for me.  I love them!  Jason got me a beautiful bouquet of flowers and a gadget to play music from my phone in the van, and the kids got me a new Yoda key chain!  We had a birthday dinner last night at Classic Burger and it was a lot of fun.  This year I got a birthday shake...instead of cake. It was delicious!

Another really fun thing was that I got spoiled at work.  Thanks to Facebook, another teacher, Kim St. George, found out it was my birthday and brought in a cake, a beautiful purple and blue orchid plant, and a lovely card.  I was SO SURPRISED when I walked into the staff room because I assumed no one knew, haha!  

I'm excited for this year and thankful for all the people who remembered me on my birthday, whether it was a text, a Facebook birthday wish, a phone call, or other thoughtful gesture.  So fun!

Cushings set some goals...and report on old ones!

For family home evening this week we sat down and reported on our 2018 goal efforts and then made new goals for 2019.  It's going to be a great year!

Here's how we did in 2018:

Family Goals:
2 family temple trips
1 family camping trip
Get Rhiannon to college
Consistent family scripture study--not so great
Call Collins family at least once a month--not as often as we'd have liked

Jason:
Monthly date with Mom
Monthly activity with Rhiannon--okay but not monthly
Monthly golf with Wade--okay but not monthly
Anniversary trip
50-miler with Wade
Run half-marathon

Verity:
Try diet for thyroid health--nope
Finish CA credential requirements--YES!
Monthly date night with Jason
Donate blood
Publish 2016 and 2017 blog/FB books
Daily Book of Mormon study
Life skill opportunities for kids


Rhiannon:
Finish Personal Progress by 5/30
Summer job
Try something new in Hawaii
Go to prom
Practice piano every Sunday--mostly!
Before college, cook dinner at least once a month--nope
Go to institute
Explore Reno--a little
Write in journal every day

Wade:
Get all Eagle merit badges--some
Run-bike twice a week--nope
Prepare for 50-miler
Do 5 Duty to God sections
High school golf team lessons
More summer jobs


And here are our 2019 goals, challenges, and experiments.  We all felt pretty fired up about these and are excited to work on them!

Family:
3-4 ward or family temple trips
Texas for Thanksgiving
Trek (July 11-13)
Buy Mom a new car
1 camping trip
Come Follow Me curriculum for FHE

Jason:
Half-marathon
Monthly date nights
Monthly golf with Wade
Learn one bass song every month
Come Follow Me study

Verity:  
Love loved ones well.
Eyes up, phone down.
Prepare physically for Girls Camp/Trek
Come Follow Me curriculum
Daily journal writing + weekly blog
40 Hr. Teacher Workweek curriculum
Keep track of all the books I finish

Rhiannon:
Come Follow Me study
2 temple visits
Play piano once a week
Go on 2 dates
See Hozier in concert + 1 more
Call gr-parents and Sandi 2X month
Fun activity once a month

Wade:
Go to a concert
Drivers Ed + license
Eagle Scout completed
Weekly, consistent Come Follow Me
High school golf team adventures
Straight A’s
Active engagement & focus in life
Make $800 over summer


Tuesday, January 8, 2019

New Year's Eve with the Halls + our last week of Christmas Break

Image may contain: 8 people, including Verity Cushing and Jason Cushing, people smiling, indoor


We enjoyed a really nice New Year's Eve with the Hall family--Spencer, Megan, Katie, and Daniel came over at 8:00 pm with lots of delicious goodies to add to our own, and we stayed up til midnight with NO problems with this crew!  Played card games, watched a movie called Split, and suddenly it was time to run outside and make some noise.  

The next day everyone pitched in and helped take down and put away Christmas decorations.  Not really bittersweet this time, just fun!

Other highlights from the week:

--Later in the week we enjoyed putting together some Hello Fresh boxed meals (a great Christmas gift from Brant and Chris--thank you!)

--The boys enjoyed a golf day with Zach Bell down in Palmdale while Rhiannon and I had a girls' day

--I had lunch with two friends (Michelle Beames and Heidi Evans)

--We all went to Desert Memorial Park and put flowers on Howard Collins' gravesite for his birthday

--and Wade and I had a blast seeing the Spider-man:Into the Spider-verse movie.  It was AWESOME!


Sunday was our first day of 8:30 am church.  All of us enjoyed it, but it was still sure a back-to-back day for Jason with bishop interviews, meetings, and the like.  

Yesterday Wade and I started back to school, and we both agreed that it could not have been a nicer, smoother first day back.  For the win!!  I was particularly grateful because we'd had 50-mph gusts the night before and I slept t-e-r-r-i-b-l-y!

Today Rhiannon made a college presentation in Wade's English class with Mrs. Palerma Wilson, and she really enjoyed that.  She also had a great time at a work party with her movie theater co-workers.  It has started to sink in a bit that she'll be going back to school herself in a couple weeks, and she's sad about that, but we are confident she will do great!


Wednesday, January 2, 2019

Happy New Year 2019 (with a few embedded catch-up posts from 2018) !



CA Cushings up in Salt Lake City for Thanksgiving, November 2018

Welcome, 2019!  

2018 had the lowest number of blog posts, on this format anyways, but that's not an indication of a boring, uneventful year.  We had some fantastic, incredible milestones--Rhiannon graduating from high school and finishing her first semester at the University of Nevada in Reno, Wade starting high school and having fun with band, golf lessons, seminary, and lawn-mowing jobs in the neighborhood, Jason taking a new LARGE assignment at work and accepting the call to serve as Bishop of the Ridgecrest 2nd Ward, and my successful completion clearing my CA teaching credential after two years of hard work, and moving to full-time at my projects teacher position.  Those were the biggest highlights, and meaningful.

Today I created books for our family with highlights from 2016 and 2017, using many of my posts on Facebook.  For the last two years I've felt incredible guilt about not giving this family blog much attention, but it turns out I was just making family history notes in a different format, on social media. I give myself a lot of guilt trips about spending too much time on Facebook, and I'm trying to be better about that, but it was nice today to see a positive of all those posts--in about 10 minutes and a very few clicks, I had two books covering two years done.  Technology is amazing!  (Now, why did I wait 2 years to figure that out!?)

Over the summer I even dabbled in a different private blog, on WordPress, but since that was only a handful of posts, I'll just copy and paste them here!

Blog post from July 2018: 

I started our family blog on Blogger back in 2007 when we began our East Coast adventure. It was the perfect way to capture a bit of our family history and helped me feel like I was doing SOMETHING on that front (scrapbooking just wasn't happening).

Now it's July 2018 and that family blog hasn't been touched for 4 months and when I DO get to it, it's to catch up and post about things that happened a long time ago. I end up feeling guilty and a little more stressed.

I do feel it's worthwhile, though, especially when I get to print out a year's worth of family happenings (note to self: 2016 and 2017 still need to be printed...)


Cushing blog books since 2007

Another reason to keep our little family blog going? It's healthier for me than social media, haha! And why change blog sites? I'm not ready to pay a monthly fee for a domain, but Wordpress had an awesome app (MUCH better than Blogger's!) that would allow me to do quick posts from my phone.

It's also a very exciting and crazy time of change for our family:

Rhiannon will start college next month at the University of Nevada: Reno. 6 hours away.

Wade will begin high school and seminary and golf team and driving! And living like an only child!

I will change from part-time to a full-time position as a projects teacher.

Jason just took on a massive new position at work...and also got called to serve as the new bishop of our ward 2 weeks ago!

Change for our family is constant and scary and fun and joyful. And I still want to capture it the best I can!


Rhiannon graduated from Burroughs High School on June 1, 2018


Blog post from July 13, 2018:  Boys' 42-Miler Backpacking Trip

Jason and Wade were gone the last week of June on a backpacking trip with friends from the ward. They traveled to Visalia and stayed the night at Daren and Lisa Hardy's home, then started on their adventure to Kings Canyon and up to Rae Lake. They will need to fill in the details here, but I know they had a fantastic time and enjoyed the company and the views even though the hiking with packs was hard!




Love this group shot and the fact that all are smiling!
Jacob Williams, Scott Hawkins, Kaleb Hawkins, Josh Washburn, Caleb Washburn, Wade (standing in back), Kevin Evans, Ephraim Washburn, Caden Beames, Ben Washburn, Wyatt Porsch, and Jason!


Blog post from July 2018:  Pickled Peppers

Jason and I tackled some of our garden produce today--the banana pepper plants have gone crazy. 


I'll be making a big batch of pico de gallo, too!



The zucchini are a bit of a bust, though. I finally checked on them today, and, um, I think they're past their prime eating but would make fun targets or something now, haha! I put the bottle of sunscreen there for size comparison. 



Blog post in July 2018:  Utah Staycation

Last week Jason, Wade, and I went to Salt Lake City for a mini 4th of July staycation with Cushing and Cropper family. Rhiannon stayed home because she had been working her job at the movie theater for just a few weeks. (It was weird without her and we missed her! But we were proud of her for doing a great job on her own, too. We were also thankful for friends, the Litton and Hall families, who took very good care of Rhiannon on the 4th of July, too!) McKaleigh was working, too--we missed her!

Highlights from our Utah trip included:
--staying the night at South Pointe in Las Vegas on the drive up and enjoying a delicious LARGE buffet dinner
--4th of July celebrating with an amazing BBQ, super fun lawn games outside (especially Koob, Can Jam, and hitting giant marshmallows with golf clubs!), and fireworks at the golf course down the street. There were some technical difficulties with the fireworks, so we sat around for a while in the dark and then started walking back to the house, when the fireworks started and we watched from the sidewalk
--a full, fun day at Snowbird! The family ride on the tram up the mountain, bungee trampoline, and the Alpine Slide were some favorites.
--Sodalicious and the mall with Grandma and cousins!
--pizza and bowling night!
--golf for the older "boys" and a super fun morning at Mulligan's playing soccer golf for the rest of us

A major highlight, and final activity of the staycation, was an hour in the Sherlock Holmes Mystery Escape Room down at Gateway Mall. Man, it was a BLAST!!! There were so many puzzles and locks and tricks and cabinets to figure out, but we did it! It was a wonderful team activity!

Here are some pics from the trip, in random order! It was a great week and we loved spending time with family!




























July 2018 Blog Post:  Bishop Cushing


July 1st was a memorable day.

A week before that, on June 24th, our stake president and family friend, Nate Kimbler, asked to speak to Jason for a moment in his office after our stake council meeting. I assumed it was about building issues or something, but a few minutes after that he asked me to join them and I knew immediately what it was for--he had just extended a call to Jason to serve as the new bishop of our ward.

President Kimbler expressed confidence in Jason and this inspired opportunity to serve. I also expressed my confidence in Jason and willingness to help and support him. I know Jason was shocked and a little shaken by the timing--he had also just accepted a big new change in position at work, and was about to leave for a week on a Young Mens backpacking trip with Wade and others, and then would turn right around to make a family trip to Utah the week after that.

We drove home from that meeting a little shook up and talked about keeping it to ourselves and not even telling the kids until it would be official, anywhere from a week to three weeks, as there would be a process of Jason recommending names for his counselors, etc.

About an hour or two after we got home from that, our doorbell rang and it was Bishop Washburn and his wife. I will never forget the love they showed us with their big smiles and huge hugs, how it was kind of funny and hard not to elaborate in front of Rhiannon and Wade yet. Jason and Ephraim went outside to talk for a bit, and Kimm visited with us inside. It was a wonderful, kind thing for them to do!!

That night Jason and Wade left for their backpacking trip. It was a tender mercy that Jason could quietly talk with Bishop Washburn all that week at the end of the hiking line to help him feel a little more prepared and ask questions. It also took a great deal of effort on my part to stay quiet about it! The boys got back Saturday night and Jason said the bishopric change would happen the very next day, on Sunday, July 1st.

That Sunday was a special day. It was a Fast Sunday, and President Kimbler asked for several of us to share testimony, including Bishop Washburn, Brother Everett Wilson, and then Jason's new counselors Kevin Evans and Bryce Perry, myself, and Jason.

I wish I'd taken notes that day and could remember exactly what was said. It was a wonderful meeting! I do remember that Jason expressed that he was a flawed man but was eager to do better, and that he also invited people to look up from their phones, use those devices wisely, and not stay in the foyer during classes!

I'm grateful for the good men and their families who have paved the way and for the Evans and Perry families and their willingness to serve with Jason now. I'm grateful for our amazing ward, who have reached out in love to both our family and the Washburns.

Bishop Washburn and his family have served with great strength and love for the past six years! Our family has felt the impact of their love and concern for us and are so grateful for their friendship and faith.

Jason said it best in a Facebook post:



If there is anything constant in life, it is change, and this is a BIG change for our family. But we know the Lord is in charge and that He will help Jason, help our ward, and help our family during this time, if we put our hearts into it and trust in Him.